Mediators? Lawyers fight? Or a custody agreement now?

Most parents agree on more than they think. Discover where you already align on custody and make progress without conflict or draining your savings.

Separation is overwhelming. You're figuring out where your kids sleep, how to manage pickups, and how to protect your role as a parent. We understand, and you don't need to figure it out alone.

We take away the hardest part, the conflict.

So you can focus on your kids.

How does KidSplit work?

You tell us what you want

Answer questions about custody and share what matters most to you.

Invite your co-parent

They answer the same questions, you both get an alignment report for free.

Review and see where you are

Read the report and know exaclty where you are at, without conflict.

You can delay, drain, and hope.
Or you can resolve and move on.

Mediation

At least 2-4 sessions, often weeks apart.
$100 - $1,000 per hour.
Face-to-face confrontation when emotions are raw.
Thousands spent, often without lasting resolution.

Litigation

Several months before resolution, process drags.
$300-$500 per hour, easily crossing $10,000 total.
Drawn-out conflict. Financial drain. Stress.
Need to attend hearings. A judge decides your kid's future.

KidSplit

Resolve as fast as both parents complete the forms.
Private, no conflict, from your home.
File with your court, affordable fee.
$59 or $499. Period.

Resolve as fast as both parents complete the forms.

Private, no conflict, from your home.

File with your court, affordable fee.

$59 or $499. Period.

How do we help?

Depending on your situation you might need to just formalize your agreement and make it enforceable or negotiate with the other parent the parenting plan.

We've already agreed on terms

Just need it official and enforceable

$59

You share the terms you've discussed

KidSplit instantly creates your draft

Clear instructions show you how to file

A judge reviews and signs*

Result:

Your agreement becomes enforceable, giving you and your kids stability to move forward.

We're still working things out

Need help finding fair middle ground

$499

Each parent answers privately, on their own time

KidSplit suggests fair middle ground

You both review and approve the draft

Clear instructions show you how to file

A judge reviews and signs*

Result:

One enforceable agreement you both trust. No conflict, no massive costs, just a plan for your kids.

*Final approval is at the judge's discretion. They may request changes before signing.

By clicking "Get my agreement for $59" or "Reach our agreement for $499", you acknowledge that you have read and agree to our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy.

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Not sure what you need now?

See where you both are and save thousands

Most parents discover they agree on more than they expect.

Answer a few questions, share your co-parent's email, and wait for them to complete on their own.

What if we are not full aligned?

See exactly where you differ, saving hours of mediation or costly lawyer debates. You can also choose to unlock the full report to view both sets of answers.

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How does KidSplit work?

Both parents complete our easy online form at their own time, covering all the core components of a custody agreement:

• Legal and physical custody
• Schedule
• Holidays and vacation time
• Exchanges and transportation
• Communication
• Special circumstances

Our system finds the compromises between your preferences. You'll both have time for a private review period - if you agree on changes, the agreement updates automatically and is ready to download.

Real insights to think through every decision

At every step, we provide insights from parents and kids who have lived it so you can make informed decisions.

"At some point, I asked to stop following the custody order. My mom took it as a win, but I loved my dad. It wasn't about that. I just wanted to be a teenager without a rigid schedule."

I was 3 when my parents divorced

"I didn't realize how much control the other parent could have over my life until I was already in it. I wish we'd set clear rules around things like vacation time, early pickups, and what counts as a shared expense."

Parent of 1 boy

"Nobody ever asked what we wanted. We stopped following the custody agreement because it didn't work for us."

I was 11 when my parents divorced

"I spent thousands on my girls' custody. Going to family court felt like deciding their future in a drive-thru."

Parent of 2 girls

What brings you here today?

Wherever you are in the process, here are a few ways to help you move forward.

Build a parenting plan that fits your family

Get a complete and downloadable parenting plan you can use, revisit, or share

Reach agreements without conflict, stress, and focus on your kids - Coming soon

Find common ground without direct conversations. Avoid unnecessary conflict.

Where are you at?

Everyone's journey is different. Pick the option that best describes your current situation. You can always explore the others later.

I am just researching

"I'm not even sure what custody means. I just know I want to protect my child."

Learn the basics →

Deciding how to proceed

"I've spent $15,000 trying mediation, then lawyers, then court. There's a better path."

→ See what I wish someone had told me before I started

Get guidance →

Already separated but need a plan

"We're winging it day by day. My child needs to know what comes next."

→ Build the structure your child needs to feel secure

Create your plan →

Working with Lawyers

"My lawyer knows the law. But they've never been the child watching Christmas get divided up."

→ Get perspective on what lawyers miss about real families

Get insights →

Understand what's ahead

Get the complete handbook that's helping parents navigate separation

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Our founder lived through this nightmare. He built this so you don't have to

When I faced separation, creating a parenting plan cost me $15,000 in lawyers, legal fees, and mediation. It also meant countless hours of stress and wasted time.

The process created so much noise that I couldn't be there for my son with the energy I wanted to give him. I knew there had to be a better way.

That's why I built KidSplit. To help parents align on parenting plans without conflict, stress, or massive costs.

Mediators? Lawyers fight? Or a custody agreement now?

How does KidSplit work?

You tell us what you want

Invite your co-parent

Review and see where you are

You can delay, drain, and hope.
Or you can resolve and move on.

Mediation

Litigation

KidSplit

How do we help?

We've already agreed on terms

We're still working things out

See where you both are and save thousands

How does KidSplit work?

Real insights to think through every decision

What brings you here today?

Build a parenting plan that fits your family

Review your custody agreement with real-world insights

Ask questions, no matter what stage you're in or how late it is

Reach agreements without conflict, stress, and focus on your kids - Coming soon

Where are you at?

I am just researching

Deciding how to proceed

Already separated but need a plan

Working with Lawyers

Understand what's ahead

Get the complete handbook that's helping parents navigate separation

Download your free handbook

Our founder lived through this nightmare. He built this so you don't have to

Frequently asked questions

Find My Report

Mediators? Lawyers fight? Or a custody agreement now?

How does KidSplit work?

You tell us what you want

Invite your co-parent

Review and see where you are

You can delay, drain, and hope.Or you can resolve and move on.

Mediation

Litigation

KidSplit

Mediation

Litigation

KidSplit

How do we help?

We've already agreed on terms

We're still working things out

See where you both are and save thousands

How does KidSplit work?

Real insights to think through every decision

What brings you here today?

Build a parenting plan that fits your family

Review your custody agreement with real-world insights

Ask questions, no matter what stage you're in or how late it is

Reach agreements without conflict, stress, and focus on your kids - Coming soon

Where are you at?

I am just researching

Deciding how to proceed

Already separated but need a plan

Working with Lawyers

Understand what's ahead

Get the complete handbook that's helping parents navigate separation

Download your free handbook

Our founder lived through this nightmare. He built this so you don't have to

Frequently asked questions

What is KidSplit?

Does KidSplit provide legal advice?

Is KidSplit legally binding?

What does the custody agreement include?

Do I need to download or install anything?

Find My Report

You can delay, drain, and hope.
Or you can resolve and move on.